Ben and Denali – Companionship That Transcends Time

Standard

When someone you love walks through the door, even if it happens five times a day, you should go totally insane with joy.

Denali

I came across something today that moved me to tears within minutes. I am a sensitive woman, but few things move me to tears that easily.  This did.

Maybe it’s because I can relate to saying goodbye.  Or maybe it’s because I know what it’s like to love another soul deeply, with every fiber of my being, that I would do anything to help them.

Regardless of why it moved me, I would like to share it with you.

Normally I wait until the end of the week, for my Soulful Sunday posts, but I couldn’t wait. It’s too amazing.  Please take a moment to turn inward, and set aside all of life’s distractions to watch something truly beautiful. You’ll be glad you did.


This is a filmmaker’s tribute to his beloved and loyal canine companion.  The video, Denali, is told from the point of view of the dog. – quite hilariously at times.  It’s so well done.  And other artists have recognized it’s brilliance: The film premiered at 5Point Film Festival, winning both Best of Festival and People’s Choice, and was an official selection at Telluride Mountainfilm.

This short film is a gorgeous and poignant expression of friendship, gratitude, honoring a beloved companion, and unconditional love.

This film is a celebration of life.

It’s a celebration of real friendship.

It’s a glimpse into how powerful a bond can become between a person and their beloved animal companion.

It’s something that I hope you can experience one day.


As I have written about before, friendships come in all shapes and sizes.  And this film shows us just that; an illumination of the resilience we can create together with the help of true friends.   But as many of you know, these friendships have to end sometimes.  That’s just the crappy part of this life.

And as Ben shows us in his deeply moving film …  

There’s no easy way to say goodbye to a friend, especially when they’ve supported you through your darkest times.


Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Whatever we were to each, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be the household word it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was;
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner…
All is well. Nothing is past, nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before,
Only better and infinitely happier,
And forever we will be one together.

~ Henry Scott Holland


Denali on beach

Love Transcends Time and Space.  

All of the souls you loved are never lost.  They are merely a thought away. 

Keep them close to you in your heart. 


Related Links

What Our Dogs Teach Us About Aging by David Dudley

Ben Moon

In ‘Denali,’ Remembering a Man and His Dog

Don’t Wait. It may be too late.

There Is No Death

A Thousand Winds That Blow (Wordless Wednesday)

Standard
starry night_pet loss_I did not die

Click on image for full post.

Sunday Funday for Everyone!

Standard

She refused to be bored chiefly because she wasn’t boring. ― Zelda Fitzgerald

conscious companion

I AM BORED! Give me something FUN to do, mom!

What are you up to this Sunday afternoon?  We are experiencing record heat temps and orange air alerts here in our nation’s capital, so we are laying low today.

When I want to lay low, the animals in our home often have other plans, so I have to be prepared. 

Our dog and cats get bored easily. They also have a lot of energy, despite their ages, so, If I want to relax, and not worry about them resorting to attention seeking behaviors, I need to invest my time in providing plenty of mental and physical exercise for them throughout the day.

cat walks_senior cats

Albert, the senior cat, enjoying a few minutes outside with me to stretch his muscles and help his arthritis.

Often Hocus and I go for adventures in the forest near our home, or I take the cats on a “walkabout” around the perimeter of our house.  These activities allow us to get out of the house, have individual time together, and maintain our powerful bond. They also come with an added bonus: They are all happily content and healthfully tired afterward.

dog parks_Conscious Companion_off leash dog

Adventuring “off-road” in the forest near our house

However, when the weather isn’t safe or comfortable to venture out in, I have to provide plenty of mental and physical enrichment activities inside. This is where I get creative. 

Give Them a Job. 

There are way too many “unemployed” dogs in homes all around the world. Unemployed dogs get into trouble.  Dogs need to be doing something positive and fun (with you) to occupy their time, to channel their energy, and to stay mentally and physically healthy.  One of the ways that we give our dog a job to do is by having Hocus forage for treats!  This helps to mentally challenge her, and to also channel her energy into something positive.  Rather than just offering a special treat like a pig ear, trachea, or bully stick, she has to work for it!

How We Do This

I gather a few safe, nontoxic, cardboard and paper recycling  items and get to work.  It only takes me a couple minutes to hide the treat, but the time it takes her to work for the treat is time well spent! You can see the video here.

By the time she’s finished, she’s ready for a short nap, and I can have some down time for myself!

The result is Life with my animal companion, improved.


So the next time your pets are driving you nuts, think about how you can help them, (and yourself).

What can you create that’s safe, fun, and mentally challenging?

Need some more ideas? Check out the links below.

Boredom comes from a boring mind. ― Metallica


Related Links

DIY Puzzle Feeder for Dogs

Enrichment Activities for Cats

Sunday Night Kong Stuffing!

Bone Stuffing: Egg Salad Jamboree!